Forearm Friday inspired by @beahappyamy Awesomeness seeing her do her tricks and magic today
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Do you have a lot to say about what other women should do with their bodies or any human? What their boundaries should be? How they should dress? Appear? Feel?
Because I genuinely do not.
I don’t know why your skirt is short or long. I don’t know what stories you’ve lived, what haunts you and liberates you. I don’t know what state your health is in or where that lands on your list of priorities. I don’t know one single thing about how you make decisions about what you put on your face.
And as much as those things interest me, unless you are talking to me about it, I’m not going to make the time to guess. I won’t pick you apart. If I’m going to dissect something, I’d rather throw that lens on myself that I might grow. Become more compassionate. Live a little kinder. Hopefully shine some light today.
I realize “do you” might seem an overly simplistic view. It’s not. It takes a lot of self-knowing to not spend your time judging others.
So I hope you are well. I hope if you are not you are on your way there. Perhaps sharing my own stories might help you along the way.
But I won’t presume to know you.
I won’t presume your motivations, your character or your “flaws.”
I won’t mask judgement in concern and pretend it’s helpful.
You don’t deserve that. And that’s just not what I’m doing with my life.
That is what I am trying to teach my daughter. She loves me dressed, in dress up or naked no judgment or discrimination as I do the same for her.
More love, less judgment. Parenting starts with the choices we make on how we choose to be a human then they create the children of our future. Be the change you want to see in the world.