We often say we don’t have words…. or don’t know what to say in times of death or when people tell us their stories that has so much bravery and challenges within…. But what we don’t realize is, it is about being there that is everything; even if it feels like nothing. Why? because filling space is impossible, especially in a situation like a loss of life or traumatic experiences. However holding space and pausing is everything in a world that no longer knows how to let one breathe and just be without a label or definition.